Why does it make me feel better to tune out people who gossip and pay

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chestnutt85

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way too much attention to me? I literally pretend they are not in the room, or that they are not there when I pass them in the halls...

Why does it make me feel better to do this than to confront them or whatever else?

What may be a better tactic, if any?
 
I think it's a perfect tactic, so long as these are not people you have to associate with, like coworkers. People that you can easily remove from your life are not worth confrontation. It probably feels better because bothering to argue with these people would be an exercise in futility and you know that.
 
You're doing what is best. Never let any thing or any body control your emotions.
 
Because you're non-confrontational. That's a good thing. Can't get in a tizzy everytime a hater says something out of the way.
 
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