why God keep useless people around -- as a joke or what?

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uselessjunk

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why God have kept useless people like myself and other around/alive? i have serve no purpose to my knowledge. i mostly feel it best to take my own life and stop tryin to work against things. i have never had bf or sex at age 30 i am a part time student in school been to college before. have no successes in life and dont want any kids. i serve no purpose. in a way i feel God have made me into a joke. what is His reason keep people like me around? seem to be just to show others how they are not failures. i dont know anymore. i have clinical depression and anxiety disorder i get help for them and meds but seem like best answer is to stop living. tired of living and getting nothing out of it. most IMPORTANT: will God be very mad and not accept me if i just find a way to cut this life short? ty.
I am not putting down God. just feel lost. i am Christian and not very good one either.
** why i feel i do not belong here on this earth, do not fit in here. if God wants me too then? doesn't make any sense!
 
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lisaclara

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It's a good thing that YOU are not GOD. If you knew him - you wouldn't be saying these things. If you have never read through the entire bible, I suggest that you do that before you kill yourself. Write down your questions and then go through them with a pastor. You might find things are not what they seem right now.
 
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Amanda_gates88

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He put you here for a reason. You may not know that reason now. I sincerely hope that you would not do such a stupid thing as to end your own life. You may feel like a failure and life may suck sometimes, & seem like it's not getting better, but you were not put on this earth as a joke, you have a purpose you will not know that purpose until it is time for you to. You just have to have faith, faith that things will work out for the better & that you can be cured from the thoughts that you have are having.
 
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Ana

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it's important to stick to therapy than to rely on meds. that's my opinion. It really helps out, i'm telling you this because i've gone through my own major depression before and i stuck to therapy and that got me out of it. Is it important for you to have a purpose? why? i'm sure you want to find satisfaction in life, but you gotta stick to what you love in order to find it. i love animals, and although i'm no vet, i volunteer at the shelter sometimes and i get no reward whatsoever because they don't get adopted because of the recession, but i stick to it. it's about your perspective on life. try getting a psych class on personal development, i highly recommend it as i enjoyed it myself. :)
 
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AdoreHim

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No everyone who has life has a purpose. And you have a purpose. You may just not have found it yet. God created you for a special reason, do not take your life. Talk to someone- either a therapist or someone at a suicide hot line. God loves you, and He wants you to live your life to the fullest. You are getting help for your depression and anxiety so please don't do what you want to do. Do you know a pastor or someone that you could talk to? As a matter of fact, I would love to talk to you. If you can email me please do. I want to help you see that God loves you and created you for a purpose. God does not create useless people.
 
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FreeSpirit

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When you know that you are responsible ONLY for what you believe and what you feel, and when you KNOW that others are responsible only for what they feel and believe, that feelings and beliefs about reality can only come from within, from what each person chooses to believe, there is no longer shame or blame, guilt or self hatred. Then you have the opportunity to believe and create your life in any way you choose - in a good way that works for you. You no longer believe it if others try to blame you, and you no longer blame anyone else for your life. That is being the CREATOR of your life. You choose consciously, not unconsciously, what you want to believe - you perceive yourself and life and others in a way that is positive and allows life to work harmoniously for you.
 
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JeffreyC

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Well, if I were God, I would consider someone who has no impact on anything to be a better person than someone who does a great amount of evil. Quite honestly, I think most people who are regarded highly in modern western society do more evil than good. This is because I feel modern western society is taking humanity down the wrong road.

I went through a 3-year period where I was heavily depressed. The thing that helped me get out of it the most was reading the unabomber's manifesto. I typed "purposelessness" into a search box and it was one of the top things that came up. That was about 10 years ago. Nowadays it won't come up in a high spot because they do a better job of manipulating the search results and they don't want people reading that stuff. They'd rather drug you up and tell you that you are the one who is defective and not the system itself.

If you decide to end your own life, God will punish you because it will cause a burden and unhappiness to others. Even if you don't care about yourself, there are probably a few people who do care about you somewhat and suicide would be a very mean thing to do to them. At the very least, discuss it with them and make sure they are ok with it before you do it. If you don't know who these people are, just talk to the 5 people with whom you've interacted the most in the past 3 years, say.

God has reasons for everything He does, although many times we humans are not smart enough to understand them. I'd say your first question is in this category. There is a reason for sure, it's just that we don't know what it is.
 
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