stonesnroses
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...for ranting)? I'm probably going to get a lot of abuse over this and regret I even asked, but it really hurts. True, there are the types who walk around showing them off but even if someone with big boobs doesn't go around showing them off (and I wouldn't want to, I'm not like that) you're labeled a sl*t or something equally unflattering. People don't want to know you. All people talk about is how they sag a lot more quickly and use that to make fun of big chested women and who wants to be with a woman whose t**s are sagging and knocking around their knees, etc. Well, exercises can be done to prevent that from happening so quickly and there's always surgery (even though most can't afford it) and besides smaller sized breasts can sag and look not as lovely as they once were too, once the body starts getting older. And sometimes, even though all boobs sag eventually, big boobs that sag can end up not looking that bad, certainly not as bad as people like to create a picture in other's minds of. Not every big breasted woman gets horrible breast/shoulder/neck/back pain. I truly think there are men who don't care what size a woman is, just as there are men who prefer smaller breasts and just as there are men who prefer women with bigger breasts. And for men who prefer bigger breasts, true there are a lot who are just wanting to use that woman, but I also believe that men genuinely respect the women who have bigger breasts too, not because of their chests, but because of the person they are. The focus is not on what size their boobs are.
Having big breasts doesn't mean you're dumb or a sl*t or think superficially all the time.
I am sorry to rant here, but I am just so sick of being smirked at or treated like there's something wrong with me just because I have a bigger bust. I developed a lot earlier and more quickly than other girls, I don't know why. I've been told that I had a great grandmother with a very large bust, maybe I get mine from her. But it's not something I could help. Why is it that big breasts are such a big deal (no pun intended)?
I would agree though that it is hard to find attractive underwear and clothing (except for the women who like to show off everything they've got)
I am absolutely not knocking women with smaller breasts, so don't accuse me of that.
Why though, do big breasted women get to have smirks and dirty looks, and treated like something is wrong with them? Treated like their breasts need to have something done about them (made smaller) as soon as possible? Yes maybe in future if they had children for example and their breasts had grown to a point where they were just really uncomfortable, they could get them reduced if they wanted to. Same as people get nose jobs, botox, whatever, because a part of their body is bothering them. And while I'm here, some people don't like small breasts. They think they should be made a bit bigger and are unattractive, etc. Small boobs can be beautiful, big boobs can be beautiful. But why are big boobs constantly made fun of? Although I'm aware that smaller-breasted girls sometimes don't get a great attitude from society either, it does seem that people are more eager to jump on the bandwagon of bashing bigger-breasted girls. Why?
Is that really all it is? Jealousy? Sometimes I truly feel like there is a real preception in society that having big boobs is wrong, though. It's interesting what you said. Thank you for your answers though.
36F. Thank you too for answering
Having big breasts doesn't mean you're dumb or a sl*t or think superficially all the time.
I am sorry to rant here, but I am just so sick of being smirked at or treated like there's something wrong with me just because I have a bigger bust. I developed a lot earlier and more quickly than other girls, I don't know why. I've been told that I had a great grandmother with a very large bust, maybe I get mine from her. But it's not something I could help. Why is it that big breasts are such a big deal (no pun intended)?
I would agree though that it is hard to find attractive underwear and clothing (except for the women who like to show off everything they've got)
I am absolutely not knocking women with smaller breasts, so don't accuse me of that.
Why though, do big breasted women get to have smirks and dirty looks, and treated like something is wrong with them? Treated like their breasts need to have something done about them (made smaller) as soon as possible? Yes maybe in future if they had children for example and their breasts had grown to a point where they were just really uncomfortable, they could get them reduced if they wanted to. Same as people get nose jobs, botox, whatever, because a part of their body is bothering them. And while I'm here, some people don't like small breasts. They think they should be made a bit bigger and are unattractive, etc. Small boobs can be beautiful, big boobs can be beautiful. But why are big boobs constantly made fun of? Although I'm aware that smaller-breasted girls sometimes don't get a great attitude from society either, it does seem that people are more eager to jump on the bandwagon of bashing bigger-breasted girls. Why?
Is that really all it is? Jealousy? Sometimes I truly feel like there is a real preception in society that having big boobs is wrong, though. It's interesting what you said. Thank you for your answers though.
36F. Thank you too for answering