Can someone that's been though a lot help me out...? Please I need someone to rant...

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Which phone should i get if i want access to Yahoo email, my blog...

...(blogger) and two websites (wordpress)? Ok, so i have not conformed to the iPhone trend but if it is the best and easiest option for me to manage my email, blog and two websites then i will have to cave in.

I have also heard about Android phones, but i have heard differing things. Some say it is a phone, others say it is an application. So i am guessing it is an application which can be used only in certain phones.

I am by no means a tech head so pls patronise me when responding!

Sarah of the Collage

PS: my blog is sarahscollage dot blogspot dot com
 
...to.? My boyfriend broke up with me on the last day of school because "we wouldn't get to see each other".
He went back to his ex girlfriend that he left for me and has been with her all summer.
He even told one of my guy friends that he might ask me out next school year...
Well, today was the second day of school. He said "Hey" to me in the hallway and that was it.
Then I saw him walking this new girl to her class.
He is still with his girlfriend hes been with all summer.

I am only 14 years old.
I understand that this is just a crush and that i'm to young to even know what love feels like.
But when I saw him with that cute girl I got a sick feeling in my stomach.
I played it off though..everyone was talking about them and all I said was that they would make a cute couple.

Not to sound like a slut but I have been through a few guys, and he is the first one I actually cried over.
I'm even crying while I write this.
I feel like such a loser.
I hate to lie to myself but all summer I was just hoping that I could have a second chance with him...On the first day at lunch I noticed him looking at me. but that was it.
I dont know what to do.
I know that couples as young as us don't last long.
I also know that he is a player.

Don't tell me that I need to get over him, because if I could, I would. Trust me.
And donlt tel me there are other guys because there arent, For some reason he is the only guy I have eyes for.
I know it's crazy and that I'm young but I really want an adults opinion on this...my mom past away and I live with my dad..but I don't really want to talk to him about this...I need a women thats been through it.
Everything makes me think of him and it hurts.
I dont even know what im asking I just want help.
Is there a way I can atleat be his friend.
Just being near him makes my heart beat really fast.
I know it's not love and it;s just a crush...probably the biggest crush ive ever had.

What do I do?
 
aww hun, i feel yeah if u wanna know what ive been through email mee..:/
 
Awwww :\. That's harsh. My ex broke up with me (without even giving me a freaking reason) and has led me on for the last 2 and a half months, making me believe stuff that I know I shouldn't, but you just don't want to let go, in case they change their mind, right? And I know what you mean about getting over him, people say it like it's just that easy. Believe me, I've been trying since the middle of June and so far, no luck. The only way I've managed to not break down when I see him is to just remember what he's put me through and that I didn't even do anything. So remember that, it's his fault and his loss. If he doesn't want you, then why in the world should you let such a prick have you now after he decides he's bored with his current girlfriend or whatever. I bet you're much hotter than he deserves, too. That was the case for my best friend and her prick of an ex. And just try to be casual with him, like don't give him too much or tell him you still like him- I made that mistake and regret it now. But let him know where he stands with you now, without just telling him-so make it seem as if you really are just friends.
Hope I helped (: x
 
You are a very smart 14 year old. First of all, you already know that it is just a crush and not real love, good for you, that is very mature of you. It made you sick to your stomach wehn you saw him walking with the other girl, because of how you feel about him, whatever that feeling may be. Ok, so the facts as you stated them is, he is a player, and he dumped you at the end of the school year, and he has a girlfriend. My best suggestion would be, pretend you don't like him anymore. Don't look at him and don't try to get his attention. Start flirting with other boys and let him see that your not miserable or sad. Let him think you have moved on passed him. We all want what we can't have. One of two things will happen here. 1. He will want you back, because you are acting like you don't care about him, or 2. you might actually meet someone else who interests you. Either way, it is a crush, and I promise time heals all, you will eventually get over him and move on, but not until you are ready. Make him jealous, and he will come running right back to you. I guarantee it... Good Luck
 
I know you dont want to hear it, but one day it will all be over, you'll move on. You seem quite mature for someone so young, and you seem to understand your feelings well. Its frustrating i know, but you might just have to ride this one out.

My only advice is maybe to turn up looking amazing, and pay him no attention, stop massaging his ego. That will probably annoy him. But seriously do you really want to be with him if he broke up with his GF to be with you and then broke up with you to be with her again? He doesn't sound like a great guy!

when i was 19 my (then BF) broke up with me for another girl, and its only now 5 years later than im finally getting the chance to sorta say "ha, i didnt need you, i did better without you". A mutual friend is getting married and Im going with my now fiance. My ex however asked our mutual friend if i was seeing anyone, and if they thought there was a chance that me and him could get back together. I hope you get the same sort of moment, to be able to say 'why did i spend so much time worrying about you!'

Just keep smiling, and be yourself, dont let it eat you up. I know its hard

good luck with it all
 
That happens to me after every guy i'm with, but i think you should just get over him even though it's going to be hard since you got to see his face.

But if i was in your position i would see if he gets jealous if he sees me with other guys and if he doesn't then he is def not for, I would really move on. & to be honest waiting is very important, ur 14 u have A LOT of time. I been with alot of jerks that really hurt me and now found someone who lives really really far from me but would to love any free second i got with him, I think you should just wait like I did.

And when you see him act like he doesn't mean $hiit to u.
 
Sorry to say but you sound very pathetic. This guy clearly doesn't want you, he walks around with different girls plus has a girlfriend, this is not a good guy. He left his ex for you now he's back with his ex, dont you realize this guys is just a player? Since you made the comment about being through a few guys, not to sound harsh but you seem like a female player yourself.
 
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