how to deal with parents who suspect you are gay? (you wanna smoke screen them, lol)?

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my gf's parents strongly suspect she & i have smthing gg on, asking if we were''abnormal'' (like her mom questioned). her parents questioned her last night, what we were doing in the room, how come its always so quiet though my gf claims we are talking/chatting.. i think they read my valentine's day card to her recently because before this, i dont think they had qualms with me coming over frequently and locking ourselves up for hours.. ah i think the situation isnt very good and i can tell it bugs my gf alot.. i dont blame her because this is a big deal.. esp since we dont intend to come out to our parents.. we are still confused, this relationship started cause we were playing/experimenting but now we find ourselves attatched and feel that there is something special that we share.. we love each other, well, i love her very much and would do anything to see her fine and happy.. i have never felt so strong for anyone, to make me strong and weak at the same time, make me feel like i want to do anything for her.. we just got through a rough patch and now that things are getting better, this has to happen so im really lost and confused abt what to do.. i think we should just act like normal tho i'll go over less for now (cause if there's a sudden change, it'll kinda imply we're gulity of that suspicion right?) but i need to know she still wants this, that we can weather through it together as long as we love each other. if you're lucky to find love, then it doesnt matter who it is with right? how should i handle this, supporting my gilrfriend and yet not pressuring her?
 
i think u pretty much got it down. it seems like u really love her a lot, and i hope she feels the same way abt u. As far as her parents knowing, if you guys arent ready to come out than you should wait till she isnt so dependent on her parents, especially if you think that they wont be accepting of it.I think u need to talk it out with her to see what you both agree on doing.I know that if i find a guy that i know i wanna be with that would be enough reason to come out to my fam. Youre right abt the whole love thing and also abt not pressuring her, i think if you guys talk thing through youll figure out the best thing for both of u, good luck.
 
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