i keep arguing with my parents its making me depressed should i move out?

LauraGree

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we constantly argue i love my parents i just can take the arguing anymore im 17 im earning 600 pound a month would that be enough for me to survive ?
im 18 in 5 months im an apprentice at the moment i work full time and work at mcdonalds too i have alot of money coming in at the moment ut i cant talk to me parents to be honest they are persuasive and really arent good with talks they lecture and dont listen i will try it tomorrow my mum is angry at me cause i cant be trusted to mind a baby and my 13 year old brother which i was watching the baby just not the other oh and myd dog chewed the teddy so my mum flipped out... and we arent speaking and yesterday she tidyed my room so embrassing what parents do tht mine of course :/
 
It is always more economical to stay with your parents when you are this young. It is a time to continue your education, get a good job, save money, and try to make something of your life. For now, it is easier to do those things in your parents' home. But, alas, it is their home and you must follow their rules. If you can't, you'll have to move out and seek a roommate. Then you can pretty much do what you want. I moved out when I was 17 1/2 but in those days I had to be 18 years old to get an apartment, so I...fibbed a bit! I loved living on my own but I had a great roommate that I had gone to school with my entire life, and a group of supportive people in this apartment complex. Also, my mom and dad visited my apartment, met my new friends and the landlord so it went smoothly---well, at first my parents were in shock over the fact I wanted to get out. So your choice is to move out, but if you love your parents and they love you, instead of arguing, try, try, try to talk about the issues you differ upon and negotiate a solution. You never solve anything arguing. You know what the problems are. Sit down with your folks and discuss them. If nothing is negotiable with them, then start looking for a roommate who is reliable and a decent place to live. But you will have less money.
 
Depends on where you live. Most places are pretty expensive and if you find a cheap place they are nasty and still have to pay your own bill. Your are 17 and aren't legally an adult and will probably wont find a place to stay on your own due to your age! Maybe you can find someone needing a room mate or something.
 
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