i need advice or an okay do it lol a ladies question perferably?

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Okay...I been seeing this beautiful exotic girl around campus. For about a month now, today I seen her in the library while talking to a friend. Anyway, She was on the oppisite side of the computer lab. So, We made head on eye contact for like 3 seconds...and then I looked again and we made eye contact again but it brokke because my friend tapped on me for help. Once my friend left, I left shortly and once stood up I looked at her she looked right at me...now I wanted to up to her but there were no chairs free and I didn't wanna interrupt whatever she was doing....so the next time I see her I'm gunna just lightly cute poke or a hey and walk with her and say, I noticed u in the library the other day or week, and I just really gotta say I think your a beautiful individual and I would like to get ta know ya....

Is that korny, smooth, just right, wack, okay, fine, lol I want her to be like awwww thanks lol....

Is there maybe a better way about approaching her.....

Can ya please help me out?

Thank ya very much I appreciate it alot
 
Yes there is a better way to approach her lol! I'm a 25 year old woman, and have heard every cheesy comeon in the book. It's always good to compliment her, but something generic like that won't impress her. If she's as beautiful as you say, there must be something you can get more specific about, like her eyes or her smile. Those are the two biggies for girls.

First, I would not go up to her and poke her. She may be staring at you because you are staring at her. Yet again, she could have noticed it to. To play it safe, and save your ego if she's not into you, next time you catch eyes, smile at her. The best way is to catch the glance, hold a little long, look down, look back up, catch eyes again, then smile at her. Not creepy, something cute, look like you're embarassed that she caught you checking her out.

If a girl has noticed you, she won't care that you are interrupting what she's doing. And if she keeps looking at you, chances are she's distracted anyway, so I doubt she will mind. If she does, you will know, trust me.

If all else fails, there's no harm in just introducing yourself and inviting her to a party or something. I got handed this one in college: a frat guy came up to me during rush and told me that he was in a scavenger hunt to find the girl on campus with the most beautiful smile, and that he was going to win. Seriously, couldn't get much cuter than that.
 
Wow, that's sweet!
Though, I don't think you should be too confident looking when you say it, like those guys do in movies that are jerks.
I think you should say it lightly, as in with a sweet smile
 
I think your plan sounds good minus the poking part. Remember you don't really know her. She might not like to be touched. Atleast not yet. Good luck!
 
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