I need some advice. Does this sound friendly or possibly wanting to be in...

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courtney

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...a relationship? There is this guy in my youth group and I'm trying to figure out if he is kinda into me or just being nice. Well the other day we had color night at church, and he is on my team and you get extra points for wearing the team color. Our color was green and I wore green pants, shirt, earrings, shoes ,hair, and nail polish. Well at the end he was playing pool with my brother and friends, and he said you got the green memo. and i said "yeah I know we totally beat al the other teams" and then before he walked out he said something about good job or way to be there for the team and then he weht for a high five like the kind where you hold hands for a sec. it was really cool. Oh yeah and he always comes to our seventh period class to "hang out and say hey to our teacher" But I'm kinda wondering if its to see me. He is really nice and cute. Any suggestions
If he does want a relationship any ideas on how to make this happen?
 
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Debbie

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Odds are you're probably reading in to this wayyy too far. It really depends on how well you know him and what not. Is this pretty much the only time you have spoken to him? If so, I bet he was just thinking you were kind of cute. I wouldn't act on it if I were you. You may make a fool of yourself. Boys are huge flirts to begin with. The combination of them hitting on every girl in the world with us reading in to every comment they make is prone for disaster. My vote is steer clear.
 
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Jess

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This is really just not enough evidence to go on. Personally, how much of a relationship could you want if it starts in a youth group? Anyhow, don't get your hopes up yet, keep en eye on him for more direct signals. If he gives them to you, don't be afraid to pull him to the side and have a mini chat with him to see what's up. Right now it sounds like he's just getting a feel for who you are and at this point, this is what you should be doing also. There's plenty of time for holding hands once he's professed his love for you ;)
 
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poggles789

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if you like him, try sending some signals his way (like talk to him and get to know him more, tell him he's cute etc) and see if he asks you out :P
 
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