ladies, if a man is fat but has good sense of humor and personality, will you date

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PerfectMan

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him? he is fat not obese
but he has attractive face
he charming, sweet, and sometime geeky/awkward but make jokes about himself
if you have similar interests to him, will you be ok with a man like this??
 
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Bibi

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Of course I would because there's nothing like a fun person that can make you laugh and want to have them in your company again. Size doesn't matter because everyone wants to be loved and accepted no matter their size. I'm sure he has had his share of rejection. Just make sure it's what you want to do because you're happy not because you feel sorry for him. Be a true friend if you're going to enjoy his company.
 
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gaby<33

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if he cant take care of himself he prob wont be able to take care of me so it depends how fat a little chub doesnt bother me but if he looks like hes pregnant its tooo much
 
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BabeHart

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Depends on how fat...fat isn't attractive and to consider dating someone I have to consider intimacy also, and there's just not going to be good intimacy if a person finds their partner physically unappealing...

A few extra pounds is fine...outright fat, probably not much appeal there...he should consider dropping the weight to improve his health and social life...after all, how many fat chicks does he go after???
 
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verachick16

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I'd love to say that all women can look past the fact that a guy is overweight, but that isn't true.
A woman values a man who takes good care of himself, and usually someone who is fat isn't taking good enough care of themselves. If he's only a little heavy then he should just lose the weight, so his personality can really shine. Hope that helps!
 
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Caroline

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Aw! Of course! He sounds adorable, and really sweet. I'm just really interested in finding someone that's nice to me and treats me well. Usually it helps if he has a sense of humor and a job. But my answer is yes, I always fall for shy nerdy guys. ;)
 
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