Made an eHarmony profile and got 1 match but I'm too nervous to send her a message!?

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So I'm 21 and haven't been on a date in over a year.. because well long story short I'm against drinking/partying and stuff like that so I don't really get alone with most people in this age range. So I made an eHarmony account to try and find someone with similar beliefs and it only gave me 1 match. It won't let me see a picture of her unless I send a picture of me but it let me read her profile and it listed a whole crapload of things that we each have in common that we put on our profiles. I'm just too much of a chicken to send her a message! How can I get some courage here? Hahah this is a stupid pointless question I know but I can't believe I finally got up the courage to make an account after months of thinking about it and now I'm too much of a sissy to send a message to the only match it gave me!

and yeah I reposted this, no replies the first time.. nobody yelled at me to grow a pair haha.
 
Geez, stop beating yourself up. You're just psyching yourself out with your own mind games.
Just send a basic letter (introduce yourself, talk about common interests, etc.); it doesn't have to be smooth or slick.
 
You just need confidence! And a ton of people find their perfect half on eharmony. My cousin did and he and his wife have so much in common it's unbelievable. You never know until you try! Besides, you have nothing to lose! Good Luck! :)
 
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