Think about how long you've known this guy. Take your time. If you kow for sure that is a good man and it will not affect you religious beliefs then go for it! Try to talk to your mom tell her how much youlove him and explain that marriage is very important to you. You are suppose to honor your parents but you have to do what makes you happy also. Pray about it and ask God to help you make the right decision and to ease your mom's worries. Hope that helps
It's not your mom who is going to marry and live with this guy, it is you. If you marry him and you are truly happy, your mom will eventually come around. After all we moms only want our children to be happy and if you are, she will be.
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