My mom grounded me because I got a few bad grades, and now she is taking

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IMANRGY

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all my stuff, what do I do? I had 4 D's and she told me to get them up to B's in 2 weeks which isn't humanly possible, but I have been doing my work anyway, it is especially hard because I have ADHD and haven't been on a good medication all year, my mom took the TV, computer and Ipod and Mp3 player and my books and she says I am not trying, but I am. she makes me want to go and do something incredibly stupid like jump off a bridge
 
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Sophiesmama

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First don't say things like jumping off a bridge. Ask your mom if you can talk and just politely discuss your situation and tell her you are really trying. You have to prove yourself since apparently you haven't done so well already. If your medication isn't working, can you talk to the school nurse about it and see if she can't talk to your mom about getting it switched?
 
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misskittyrocks

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That sounds pretty impulsive to me. If you are thinking of harming yourself you need to call 911 and get help. There is no reason to kill yourself over material things, they can be replaced, you can't. Sounds like your mom is really hard on punishing you for doing bad in school. That really must suck. What does your dad have to say about this? Are you getting extra help through school? Modified school program? I assume you are on meds, what do you know about ADHD? Has your family members been educated about the lack of focus with ADHD? Have you learned any good coping skills for the hyper activity? Sounds like you need more support, I would suggest a counsellor, either at school or through a program. You are not alone. I too have ADHD. You need to educate yourself and maybe even see your family doctor, because if you still can't focus, maybe the meds are wrong... I know Concerta works the best for me.
 
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PennyAtVanessat

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Stop playing the blame game, your mum did the right thing because she wants you to make good of your life. She's being cruel to be kind. Suck it up and do the work - you will thank her later in life, believe me.
 
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