Need lots of good advice please. Mainly lesbians and Bi's.?

Blubba

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I just don't understand this...
First things first, I don't judge, when she told me she was a lesbian the convo continued as normal and I asked her why, she said that she PREFERS girls to boys.... nowt wrong with that.
But, what I don't understand is the fact that she's flirting with me and generally doing things, especially on texts that someone who I would be dating would do...

In her Facebook profile she says she's interested in both men and women... I asked her and she said she PREFERS women over men, and that she can't control who she has feeling for.
she says I'm different to other guys.
She said that I proppa crack her up all the time.
She flirts, uses tones of lol's, lmao's etc.. and emotions in texts to me, including :P all the time.
She asked me, without even knowing me at all, if I wanted a bite to eat with her.
She jumped to say yes to go out to town with me.
She talks to me all the time and instead of saying she was out with mates, she would tell me their names.
She tells me about her day and goes in detail about everything she says, including her hospital stuff.
She used to just text me 'night x' but now its 'night night darling x'. And if I've been talking to her and I or her needs to go she'll say 'talk later darl x' - + :P
Virtually every time we talk there's all ways a ;) :P in the message.
She tells me about her family, friends and what shes doing/gonna do today.
She brought me onto her favourite facebook game.
She laughs all the time both on text and when she's around me.
The second time I ever saw her she took baby steps sidewards towards me and stood about 10cm away from me...really she was that close!

We only met like 7 weeks ago and for the first 4 weeks we hardly spoke. But I gave her my number 3 weeks ago and we've never stopped talking since. She added me on facebook and everything...
She is very open with me.

I text her and there was no reply. So i text her something like 'I'm blanking you' as a joke and didn't text for like 1 hour after that (she sent 1-2 texts)... I then looked on her facebook and it said she was really pis sed off, so I text her telling her it was a joke and she immediately answered in a happy way... Is it likely she was pis sed off with me or with her gf? One of her friends asked her why she was pis sed off and she wouldn't tell her!

I don't understand it! She's in a relationship with another woman...
Is this normal behaviour of a lesbian woman or not?
Like does it show just friendliness?
Or does it show that she interested in me but can't because she's in a relationship already?

Do you think she is really Bi but just slightly confused or not? - i respect her, im just wondering...


Sorry this is huge and probably doesn't make sense, but do what you can PLEASE!

Thanks
 
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