People who date:: is it normal after just meeting to only see/talk once a week or so?

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Madeleine

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i feel like me and this capricorn guy really hit it off. for several reasons. we talk some during the week, but just a little bit, and we've kind of only been hanging out like once a week. is that weird? when we're together, i feel like we're a couple lol. we're not, but we've been super comfortable around each other even after just meeting. he's kissed me and told me he feels very attracted to me and stuff, and right when i got out of his car last time he texted me 'just do me a favor and text me when you get to your dorm'...but would he ask me to hang out much more often if he was very serious about me?
 
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Lex

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There are some people who for whatever reason need that space. I can tell you, when I was in constant contact with boyfriends those relationships never lasted. It's not the whole absence makes the heart grow fonder thing it's that at a point in your life you have to prioritize and as much as you may like/be attracted to someone there are things you need to do that you're not doing when you're in constant contact with them. I know that sounds like I'm saying that the bf/gf isn't important enough but that's not it at all. When you're at that point in your life the bf/gf is like a Mars bar that you have once a week and cherish every morsel until it's gone....but if you had one every day you'd have health problems. The best thing to do is not overthink it and let things develop. The time will come when you spend more time together but cherish what you have while you have it.
 
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