People who date:: is it normal after just meeting to only see/talk once a week

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or so...even when INTERESTED? i feel like me and this capricorn guy really hit it off. for several reasons. we talk some during the week, but just a little bit, and we've kind of only been hanging out like once a week. is that weird? when we're together, i feel like we're a couple lol. we're not, but we've been super comfortable around each other even after just meeting. he's kissed me and told me he feels very attracted to me and stuff, and right when i got out of his car last time he texted me 'just do me a favor and text me when you get to your dorm'...but would he ask me to hang out much more often if he was very serious about me?
 
You are only casually dating....from what you said there is no agreement to EXCLUSIVELY DATE ONLY EACH OTHER....perhaps you are trying to move things along too quickly.
 
It could be that he's waiting to see just how he feels and doesn't want to rush anything. I do think that if he were "very serious" about you then you would talk a bit more than once a week. However, my boyfriend works shift work and strange hours so a lot of the time I don't see him during the week. He does call every day but this guy may work weird hours and he may just not like talking on the phone a lot. I would not call him at all, nor text him. If he is interested in you, it's going to be because he knows you have a life and you're happy with or without a boyfriend. A guy does NOT want to be your "everything". He wants to be a part of your life but not all of it so don't go calling him all the time. Stay busy with your friends and still date and talk to other guys. Time will tell. Good luck.
 
If he's really, really interested, he'd be making more of an effort to talk / see you. Doesn't sound too promising and please stop considering zodiac signs when selecting a mate. Never works!
 
I think it would depend on his schedule - if he's going to school and working, whatever he's doing, he may not have time to hang out with you except once a week - give it more time, you may find out how busy he is and he may want to be with you more, but his other obligations may not be flexible right now! Good luck!
 
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