My husband and i are looking for a new or used good american car. We have 3 kids so we do want one with a 3rd row. Is it really bad when there is a used car not too old but with a ton of miles, i've heard yes and no. We want to keep this car til it dies on us. So we do know that we have to spend a little bit of money. Can anyone suggest a good suv or minivan (not too crazy about the vans) or what i should stay away from if we go used?