I guess the problem for me is I dont act differently in real life than I do here. I try to be respectful to everyone and not take for granted you're not right here in the same room with me. If you'll notice, I apologize quickly if i'm wrong and work to make amends. I'd do that in person as well. I admit when I'm wrong, and am usually thankful for the patients to help me see that. I do the same here in real life.
What I DONT do is call someone stupid or ignorant. What I DONT to is try to ostricize someone by telling them they're symptomatic of the problem with their culture. To me, thats needlessly offensive and serves no purpose.