Why Don't I have friends?( A Rant Explaining and a Question)?

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HeyMofo

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Mar 10, 2010
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well...i think im cool but it feels like when i talk to people, we laugh and joke, we have MANY MANY MANY things in common but then outside of school or practice...i never hang with anybody. What makes me such a loner? I do not know if i come off as this person that has it all to them..i do not know if they really hate me behind my back. I really do not know what am asking...I am like so outgoing and not a party Popper, I have a Big family to where i do not even need friends...but everyone needs friends. It just feels as though i cant keep friends anymore, and when they do call...its because they need a extra person to hang with for that day only then they disappear again or be on a soccer team..etc. I do not understand..Sometimes i feel that its because i dont have sex like all the other kids or think what they do is cool..who can i talk to about this The School Advisor?
 
I think you should make the first move in making friends, rather than waiting for them to call you. And i'm sure it has nothing to do with you not having sex, because how would they even know whether you do or not?
And you said that you are very outgoing, it could be that you are just too "in your face" for some people. Maybe lay off a bit, and see how that works out.
Maybe the reason they call you when they need you then disappear is because you're letting them walk all over you.
Just call up some people that you usually have a good time with, and ask if they wanna hang out. I'm sure they won't mind. Good luck :)
 


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