I was 19 when I got married. He was in the military. I am a Christian and I thought he was, but he changed after war. I waited until I was married. I was a virgin. Later in the marriage he cheated and now I am in the process of a divorce. I tried to reconcile with him and seek counseling but he was unrepentant.
Now I am wondering if a good Christian man would want to be with a 22 year old divorcee? I have no children, thankfully, since this would be too hard on them. I don't believe in sex outside of marriage but I am no longer a virgin and I am afraid that men who want the same thing, to save sex for marriage, won't want me because I am no longer a virgin. Thoughts?
It isn't a matter of just finding SOMEONE...I am sure that is not a problem. But I want a man who will wait to have sex until marriage...one who is not sexually active and still claiming to be a Christian. I am praying for the right man, I just feel a little insecure right now because I gave my husband this precious gift he threw away and now I don't have that gift anymore.
Now I am wondering if a good Christian man would want to be with a 22 year old divorcee? I have no children, thankfully, since this would be too hard on them. I don't believe in sex outside of marriage but I am no longer a virgin and I am afraid that men who want the same thing, to save sex for marriage, won't want me because I am no longer a virgin. Thoughts?
It isn't a matter of just finding SOMEONE...I am sure that is not a problem. But I want a man who will wait to have sex until marriage...one who is not sexually active and still claiming to be a Christian. I am praying for the right man, I just feel a little insecure right now because I gave my husband this precious gift he threw away and now I don't have that gift anymore.