Will a good Christian man be interested in me?

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Livvy

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I was 19 when I got married. He was in the military. I am a Christian and I thought he was, but he changed after war. I waited until I was married. I was a virgin. Later in the marriage he cheated and now I am in the process of a divorce. I tried to reconcile with him and seek counseling but he was unrepentant.

Now I am wondering if a good Christian man would want to be with a 22 year old divorcee? I have no children, thankfully, since this would be too hard on them. I don't believe in sex outside of marriage but I am no longer a virgin and I am afraid that men who want the same thing, to save sex for marriage, won't want me because I am no longer a virgin. Thoughts?
It isn't a matter of just finding SOMEONE...I am sure that is not a problem. But I want a man who will wait to have sex until marriage...one who is not sexually active and still claiming to be a Christian. I am praying for the right man, I just feel a little insecure right now because I gave my husband this precious gift he threw away and now I don't have that gift anymore.
 
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RighteousBrother

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The Bible states that there are 2 acceptable reasons for divorce (no matter what the Catholics say). Infidelity and physical abuse. Don't worry about it. If you believe in Jesus, you are fine. If you are a good lady, then any Christian man would be a fool to not to want you. God Bless you sweet lady.
 
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NaregVe

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A gd christian man should be interested in u

matthew 5:31-32

31 “It has been said, ‘Anyone who divorces his wife must give her a certificate of divorce.’[f] 32 But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery.

u r not the one who haad sexually immorality ... the man was... so he is the victom of adultery and u have the right to divorce him and be married agaiin according to bible...
 
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