Advice on being a stay at home mum?

[PokemonPrincessxxm]

I am expecting my first baby and I am 21. there is nothing else that I feel I really want to do with my life. I can write quite well, but other than that I REALLY struggle achidemically. I have tried getting qualifications but I have really struggled with them and I constantly need help from my tutors, even if they have showed me something before. I have Aspergers Syndrome and ADD and I find it very difficult to understand instructions sometimes. I can look after myself OK as I am good at cooking, cleaning and I have high emotional intelligence. I am terrified of going to work and getting a job. I would rather be a Mum and housewife as I am much better at caring for people than I am working with them and following their instructions. I love animals but my partner is allergic to dander and no matter what job it is I'm really scared. but I don't know if there is that place for women to saty at home nowadays.
Thankyou for your input Stacyloa...
I found it very supportive. I would like being able to spend time with my children and my partner when he is home rather than going to work.
I agree that it's the best thing for a child and yes I know there are men who do it too. my brother did a very good job when he wasn't working for a few months looking after the house and his daughter while his partner worked.

 

[lizesumpter]

A lot of woman and MEN are staying at home with their children. Believe me it is a full-time job. If you feel it in your heart that this is what you are supposed to do, go fot it. There is nothing better than being able to stay at home with your child and it is the best thing for the child to. Good Luck!

 

[stacyloaks]

I have been a stay at home mom for 3 years now, and i love it! there is a place for it these days, if you can afford to do so. the best thing i can tell you about being a SAHM is to keep on a regular schedule and lan fun activites for you and the baby. If you are able to do so then do it. good luck to you.