LadyCaliope17
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- Jun 16, 2008
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very NEGATIVE family- how to deal? I'm 24, boyfriend lives 30 miles away-we dont live together cuz he had a traumatizing experience living with his ex- so i go straight to his place after work fri. & leave sun. afternoon to come home...every chance my family gets i have to hear "you're always gone for 3 days & dont tell anyone anything/u dont call home/youre not a part of the family" they know where I am, i do not need to check in @ this age, they do this to bi*ch simply cuz they dont know any other way.
Even if i DID stay home- the situation @ home is depressing- no one cleans anything- the toilet and bathtub are growing mold, there is dust everywhere, my sister/brother @ the computer 24/7 myspacing/facebooking, farting all day.
Their form of communication is yell/ accuse/ criticize/ demean/ make the other feel like shi* & im trying to have an awesome life & career working on self-improvement, education, psychology etc & I see the damage theyre doing & the anger/bitterness in them..how 2 deal w/this while living here?
Even if i DID stay home- the situation @ home is depressing- no one cleans anything- the toilet and bathtub are growing mold, there is dust everywhere, my sister/brother @ the computer 24/7 myspacing/facebooking, farting all day.
Their form of communication is yell/ accuse/ criticize/ demean/ make the other feel like shi* & im trying to have an awesome life & career working on self-improvement, education, psychology etc & I see the damage theyre doing & the anger/bitterness in them..how 2 deal w/this while living here?